Searchers never find him; only the people who invite him have found him, because invitation means a great task: you have to transform yourself totally to be worthy to receive. You have to be loving, you have to be alert, you have to be sensitive, you have to be creative. You have to cleanse your being; you have to become silent, spacious. You have to make your being a small shrine, worthy for God to abide in. He comes to you only when you are absolutely restful, relaxed, calm, quiet, when there is no desire, no thought, when you are not asking for anything, not praying for anything. When you are simply there, in that simplicity god arrives. And because you are saying something you are not silent even with god. Prayer is a dialogue, and one thing has to be very deeply understood — that god understands no language except the language of silence.